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I still stick to the notion that women are very special. I mean, take a look at creation. After God created everything else, he sat down and probably said to himself “Man, I am good. This is beautiful, BUT, there is something missing..” I bet God knew something important was not there, so he created a woman. After the creation of a woman, God was then satisfied with it all, and the Bible said “He rested on the seventh day”.
Women are special in so many ways. “If you educate an man, you educate an individual, if you educate a woman, you eucate a whole nation”. Out of woman comes life. If you want to defeat any man at anything, use a woman. Women are not only special, but they are very powerful. In the Bible, the strongest man in the worl was Samson. Samson’s defeat was at the hands of Delilah. Look at all the great leaders, politicans, and etc. they all usually fall because of a woman. You can never deny the importance of womena nd the influence they have in this world. Their influence is sadly downplayed in this society. All in all, we should appreciate and cherish our women.
With that being said, as men, WE WILL NEVER fully understand women. They even do not even understand each other. They will agree that they are complicated. But yet again, that is the beauty about them. It is like finding peace in the presence of war; finding calm during the storm and finding happiness during the sorrow; those moments are usually the most cherished. Women are complicated, but there is some sort of beauty that comes with the them being difficult and them being complicated. As men, no matter how much we complain about our women being nagging, complicated and difficult, we never stop caring and wanting to be with them – talk about power.
But let’s face it, there are certain things we will never understand about them. Below is the top 5 of things men do not understand about women. Some of you ladies might not understand these things about yourselves either.
Now, the TOP 5:
#5: Why do some women call themselves “bad b*tch”, but want men to respect them?
Seriously speaking, I have heard a good amount of women treat each other or themselves in disrespectful ways, but then demand respect from guys. Some women take bride in the phrase “I am a bad b*tch”. If a guy calls them a “b*tch”, they flip, but if a guy calls them a “bad b*tch”, they flip. SInce when did “bad” mean great, or good? The truth is, if you do not treat yourself like a lady, no man will treat you like one. Its simple logic: Yes, we say do not judge a book but its cover, but if you see a guy on the streets, and he is not well dressed (he is sagging outrageously), he ususes cuss words in every sentence, and he totally not presenting himself right, will you give him the time of day, or even respect him? WIll you even give him the title “gentleman”? Will you vote for such a person to be the CEO of your company or the president of your country? Why not? Because of how they presented themselves? I bet. Same for women who are beautiful and educated but act otherwise. Some of us men do not really understand why you disrespect yourselves but then demand respect from others. What do you call a female dog who is stubborn or bad? “A bad b*tch”. Do you feel a sense of accomplishment when you compare yourself to a bad female dog? God created you to be special, so stop rebelling by dehumanizing yourself. You are wonderfully and fearfully made.
#4: Why is it hard for some women to get along with other women (They are always competing)?
Men can live as roommates for a long time. Yes, sometimes there will be some disagreeements but they will be fine after sometime. Some women on the other hand can’t and will simply not be able stand each other. Men have already picked up on this. Some women do not like other women simply because…. erm, no one knows. Not even them. But somestimes, it is just because the other person is prettier, or it is usually about something irrelevant. If you are going to be mad at someone, or hate on someone, then it has to be something deep and significant. A lot of females say this, “I do not like females. I can’t stand them”. Wait, you are a female yourself and you call these other girls your “besties”, so what are you saying again?
#3: Why do some women get upset and complain about their man not giving spend time witht hem, while they are working on their goals?
Some women do this this. They claim they want a man who is focused on their dreams and goals and a man who is going somewhere in life. Well, guess what, if he focused on his goals and chasing dreams, he is not not going to have a lot of free time on his hands.
#2: Why do some women make excuses for guys who do not treat them right?
A lot of women do this. When a guys beings to treat them wrong, they constantly find ways and means to continue to live in the “fantasy world”. They paint a picture of what they believe the guys and no matter what you tell them, they will counter attack it with an argument. Yes, the guy can cheat, lie or abuse them, but they will say something like, “thats not him., he was drunk or high, or he did not get enough sleep the night before”. Yup, that is him! He abused you verbally and physically. That is not acceptable under any circumstance, so do not try to cover him up because you are afraid to lose him. A lot of girls continue to let guiys take advantage of them becuase they simply do not want to lose them. They know the relationship or whatever they have with this guy is not healthy, but they constantly defend and make excuses for their actions. Females! Never let a guy disrespect you just because you are afraid to lose him; if you do, you will end up losing both: him and your dignity.
#1: Why do you all settle for idiotic guys or guys who do not treat you right, but then complain about not being able to find good guys?
This is number #1 because a lot of women get caught up in this. I will not elaborate ont his because it is self explanatory and this is something a lot of men are trying to uderstand about women.